Who am I?

I am a 40 year old Australian male, and I have always been fascinated by wet dreams and the mechanics behind them. The purpose of this blog is to collect knowledge about ways to induce wet dreams, to improve their quality and vividness, and to increase the memory retention of the dreams.

As far as I can remember, I have had several orgasms in my wet dreams, but never woke up to find my underwear wet (i.e., the ejaculation was not full). However, the pleasure of the orgasm was just like a full-fledged real life orgasm, which means I still covet these dreams. I can usually remember all the details of the dream, which makes them enjoyable experiences to reflect back on. This makes one think about the statement "the mind cannot tell the difference between a real experience and a vividly imagined one". Based on this, the value of these dreams is not lesser than the real sexual experiences.

I remember reading a web post asking how to induce these dreams. The person who answered gave this reasoning: "all you get is wet underwear and you can't remember anything". What makes the difference is remembering the dream and enjoying some very unusual sexual encounters in these dream sequences.

I started working towards having these dreams in earnest in March 2009. I decided not to have sex or ejaculate via masturbation in order to bring the dreams on. At the time of writing, this makes it 8 months without sex. This is quite a feat for me, as since the age of 18 (22 years), I have not gone a month without having sex with a woman.

However, I kept masturbating to the point of orgasm and stopped just before ejaculation. I have been trying the techniques described in Mantak Chia's book The Multi-Orgasmic Man which explain how to have orgasms without ejaculation. However, after not having any wet dreams for a while, I decided that this ejaculation-free masturbation was preventing me from building up sufficient sexual tension to bring on the wet dreams.

So in May 2009, I completely stopped touching my penis, in order to create a real hunger for sexual interaction. At the time of writing, this makes it 6 months without any physical stimulation of the penis whatsoever.

Since then I had 3 wet dreams. As before, none of them left me with wet underwear. But I can distinctly remember feeling the muscle spasms of orgasm and the flow of semen through my penis.

I will go into further details of the dreams in my next post.