The first dream

The first dream that led to orgasm (even though it didn't result in wet underwear), was in June 2009. In the dream, I was walking down the street at night, when two women walked past me. The one on the left had thick long black hear, was wearing a police cap, and her very large breasts were exposed and bouncing as she walked by.

I turned around to follow her, and in a sudden urge reached out with my left hand to cup her her large breast from behind. I reached down between her legs with my right hand and massaged her vagina and clitoris (which were now exposed, even though they were not a second before. These inconsistencies often happen in my dreams). I cradled my chin on the soft skin of her neck and shoulder, and to my surprise she was enjoying my attentions and was not complaining about the sudden contact. This drove me over the edge, and I had a strong orgasm. I woke up immediately with a strong erection, and checked for any semen on my penis. The tip might have been a bit wet, but otherwise there were no signs of ejaculation.

I was very surprised at the speed of my orgasm, as I didn't penetrate her, and it all happened within a second or two. This reminded me of my first sexual experience. I was very young then, and was about to have sex with a 28 year old call girl. She was on top of me, and as I held my penis to penetrate her, I ejaculated. This was the only time I ever experienced premature ejaculation, and since then I always tried to delay my orgasm.

The habit of delaying orgasm, while useful in real life sex, is not so helpful in the realm of wet dreams. I found that you need to be quick and decisive in the dream in order to produce an orgasm. Otherwise, some distraction occurs in the dream which destroys the opportunity to have an orgasm.

The other recurring theme is the ease of sexual encounter in dreams. Virtually any person in the dream is a willing sexual partner, once you've taken the decision and initiative to have sex or sexual contact with them. This would happen again and again. I would often remind myself before going to sleep, "doesn't matter who it is, just do it!".