Problems and questions

My most common problems that prevent an orgasm in wet dreams are:

1. In the dream, I worry about having an orgasm too quickly. Not realizing this is a dream, I am concerned that if I ejaculate too quickly, the woman would be disappointed that I didn't help her reach orgasm first. I usually contract my PC muscles in order to avoid climax. I usually don't get another chance to have an orgasm that night.

2. I wake up before I have an orgasm. This often happens. Since I started this experiment, I had at least 80 sexual dreams that could have ended in orgasm if I didn't wake up too soon. I usually try to fall back to sleep in order to get another chance.

3. In the dream, I stop myself from having sex with a person that I think I should not have sex with. This is often my ex-wife or some other family member (such as an aunt etc.) or in rare cases, another man (being heterosexual, I instinctively reject this in my dreams). In the case of my ex-wife, my internal dialogue in the dream goes like this, "we wanted to have a clean break with the divorce. Don't complicate things by having sex with her now".

4. Someone walks in on us while we're having sex. The person that interrupts us is often my mum or my ex-wife. This case is one of the most frustrating ones, since upon waking, I realize that I could have continued having sex without suffering any adverse consequences. This sometimes raises the issue of morality in dreams.